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An oldie but a goodie

One of the items I packed up in my little suitcase for my recent visit to the land of the long white cloud was a black cardigan. I think we all have one, they go with you to the movies cause you know its going to get a little chilly, they dress down a maxi dress, the look great with jeans and they are IMPOSSIBLE to find when you need a new one.

My perfect black cardigan

I was almost faced with this mammoth task (eek!) recently because while we were holidaying in lovely Taupo, on the North Island of NZ, I dropped mine walking to dinner!!! I was devastated, I ran back all the way (in high heels too) almost to the car but could not see my cardigan! Now before I go any further, I must explain to you that I have had this cardigan since I was about 14 or 15 years old (yes, it’s a little tighter round the arms and I can’t actually do it up over my bust anymore, but that’s beside the point!). My grandmother bought it for me from Kmart, yes Kmart – it probably cost around $19.99, bargain!

Why do I still have it? Because it is the perfect black cardigan – its warm enough when it needs to be, the sleeves are long enough, it sits just on the hip without making them look huge, and covered that bit of exposed back that you get when you sit down and your jeans ride down about 2 inches. It really is the perfect companion (no offence honey, you are too!). The other reason I still have it is because I just haven’t found one to replace it – they are too short, to baggy, too small, too big, too thin, have a pattern, have big ugly buttons etc etc.

For someone who works in the rag trade, many clothes have come and gone from my wardrobe, I say to my other half every time I do the washing and ironing ‘remind me that I don’t need ANY MORE clothes’ (and he just laughs). Clothes, on the most part, are fairly disposable to me, especially the ones you buy from Kmart for $19.99. Except this little cardigan….

So back to Taupo, losing my cardigan almost ruined my meal! I almost just wanted to go home and cry! “At least now you have a real excuse to go shopping” the other half noted, trying to be helpful. “But I won’t find another one like it” I whined! So as I sulked all the way back to the car, I just happened to glance to my left and there it was! Someone had taken pity on my cardigan lying on the ground and slung it over a chair - I ran, I mean RAN to it, you would have thought it was my long, lost sister!

Me wearing the cardi on Christmas Day, Auckland

Needless to say, she didn’t leave my side for the rest of the trip (besides a quick wash, you never know what was sitting on that park bench beforehand!). It was only when I almost lost her, did I realise how hard it would have been to replace her, but the thing that really struck me (and even more so with what has happened here in QLD recently) is that the amount of money she cost in the first place had nothing to do with the value that I had on her. I have given away, sold, swap and loan quite a few designer pieces which were nice, but meant nothing to me sentimentally but this $20 cardi was so special to me and I so glad I found it!

Do you have an item of clothing or jewellry that is special to you for one reason or other?

Black is not always the new black

Burnt orange is the new black, gladiator sandals are the new black, poo catchers (MC Hammer pants) are the new black, and as always black is the new black…..but is it?

What is your best colour?

Black is the safety net of fashion, it’s everyone’s go-to colour  (especially if you live in Melbourne) but black, just like every other colour, shade, tone out there is not for everyone. Black has the common misconception of being the most slimming thing to wear, and yes, it can hide a few more lumps and bumps that some of the lighter colours, but the shapes and proportions of the clothes you wear are much more likely to be slimming than just a colour (but that is a WHOLE other blog).

Black can be quite draining on a complexion. To go old school ‘Colour-Me-Beautiful’  on you, only a true Winter (olive skin, usually dark hair and blue or brown eyes -  think Katy Perry, Salma Hiyak….Snow White) can truly wear stark black (and white for that matter). Everyone else should be wearing tones of charcoal, navy or chocolate. Also, I hate to say it girls, but the older we get, the more wearing black close to our faces can show up the fine lines and wrinkles that are starting to form.

So it’s time to embrace colour! Here are a few tips to get us out of the black fashion-hole we have all fallen into:

  1. Trinny and Susannah (my idols) always say never wear black with colour, it cheapens them both, but I have to say I disagree to some extent. If you can’t jump straight into a bright pink frock, try and find a dress/top that has a little black and a little colour, that way you can get used to wearing other colours without completely losing your black safety blanket

    Work you way into colour - SACHA DRAKE Carrie Dress

  2. When you go shopping,  hold up different colours close to your face, the ones that suit you are the ones that will make your eyes pop and your skin glow, even without makeup. If you don’t think you can do this on your own, take a trusted friend that will tell you the truth (in a nice way of course)
  3. Shop locally – for us Queenslanders, colour is such an important part of our wardrobe. Brisbane-based labels like Sacha Drake and Maiocchi work a lot with colour, not a plain black dress in sight! If you have more colours to choose from, chances are you will find some that suit you.
  4. Seek professional help – either a personal stylist or a well-trained retail staff member will be able to help you work out which colours suit you. Don’t expect to get this help from the chain stores in general though (sorry chain stores), remember in retail you pay for what you get when it comes to service and quality (for the most part)
  5. Colour-Me-Beautiful. Remember this book from the late 70′s early 80′s? my mum had a copy and I used to LOVE flicking though it. Our original copy fell apart but you can order it online at www.amazon.com. Still a wealth of information
  6. If you MUST wear black on the top half of your body, wear a bright coloured necklace to break up the space between the black and your face.

So black is not always best, don’t be scared to get out there and try some colour, you never know – you might actually like it. The moral of the story? Black is NOT the new black!

It’s all fun and games… until someone loses a frock

One week ago today South-East Queensland was in the early stages of the most devastating flood since 1974. It was raining more heavily than I have ever seen it rain, the water was starting to rise, people were starting to realise how serious this was going to get. It wasn’t until my ridiculously calm-in-a-crisis mother said to me, “this is serious chicky, Brisbane is going to flood” did the magnitude of what was going to happen started to hit me.

Brisbane City flooded Jan 2011

People around Brisbane rallied to get their belongings, and their neighbours, to higher ground but for some people there just wasn’t enough time. The water rose quickly and people could not get back to their houses even if they wanted to. Books, furniture, photographs and clothes were lost.

If your house wasn’t affected it can be easy to sit back and say “it’s only stuff, the people are ok, that’s the main thing” but I don’t think it’s that simple. For a lot of people, their ‘stuff’ in particular their wardrobe is intrinsically linked to who they are, and to have that all wiped away in one day is unfathomable. Working in fashion it may be more obvious to me but what you wear can so much about who you are and I know if I lost my whole wardrobe, like many of these people have, I would feel like I had lost part of me.

So what can we do if all has been lost?? If you have had any clothes damaged by the flood waters or know anyone that has, here are a few tips that could help salvage some garments:

  1. If mud is dry, or thick and crusted, hose down outside to soften the mud and remove as much as you can
  2. Get all mud-covered clothes into a tub of hot water and Napisan straight away – soak overnight if possible
  3. Wash in the washing machine on the longest, hottest cycle with Napisan and washing powder
  4. Wash again on a normal cycle with your nicest-smelling washing powder
  • If clothes are smelly from the mud, but safe and dry, hang in the bathroom next time you have a shower, this will steam them and help remove the smell
  • Delicate fabrics (such as silk) can be handwashed several times to remove the mud

A dear girlfriend of mine had her mother’s home flooded and as well as her mum losing her whole wardrobe, my girlfriend lost some of the most exquisite vintage clothes you have ever seen in you life, we are talking thousands of dollars worth of frocks. As we were discussing the horridness of losing your whole wardrobe in one go, she said to me, “Darling it’s all fun and games until someone loses a frock.” I couldn’t have said it better myself.

If you have any other questions about what you can do with flood-affected garments, please let me know – I have a team of fabric gurus on standby!