Ever found yourself staring blankly into your wardrobe, wondering how to make those trendy pieces actually work for you? Let’s break down the age-old fashion dilemma using a comparison I heard on a podcast recently and really resonated with me: fashion vs. flattering.

Decoding the Fashion Code

When we talk about “fashion,” we’re usually diving into the world of trends. Think oversized silhouettes, unexpected proportions, and pieces that push the boundaries of traditional style. Fashion is all about making a statement and experimenting with new looks.

“Fashion” typically refers to trends and expressions that push boundaries and challenge conventional aesthetics. It’s about embracing new silhouettes, proportions, and design elements, often prioritizing artistic expression over traditional notions of beauty.

The “F” Word: Flattering

Now, let’s talk about “flattering.” (Gasp!) I know, I know, it sometimes feels like a dirty word. But trust me, it doesn’t have to be about conforming to outdated beauty standards. Flattering simply means highlighting your best bits! Got amazing legs? Rock that mini skirt! Love your waist? Cinch it with a belt! It’s all about owning your confidence and dressing in a way that makes you feel your best.

“Flattering,” is about understanding and enhancing your body’s natural lines. This doesn’t imply conformity to any standard but rather a strategic approach to highlighting your favourite features. It might involve accentuating a defined waist, elongating the leg line, or drawing attention to a sculpted shoulder.

Styling Showdown: A Classic Example

Let’s say you’re rocking a pair of wide-leg pants (because who doesn’t love those?!).

• Flattering: Tuck in a T-shirt to define your waist and create a long, lean silhouette.

• Fashion: Go for an oversized, boxy tee and wear it untucked. You’ll be playing with volume and proportions for an on-trend look.

The Takeaway?

There’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to fashion vs. flattering. Sometimes you want to embrace the latest trends, and other times you want to highlight your favorite assets. The key is to be intentional with your style choices.

Next time you’re getting dressed, ask yourself: “Am I going for fashion or flattering today?” The answer will guide you towards creating a look you love.

P.S. Remember, fashion is all about having fun and expressing yourself. So mix it up, experiment, and find what works best for YOU!

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